The Definition of Perfect

Today, I asked my date "What's your perfect girl like?"
He gave me a very long answer
She....
has to be athletic
gotta have a nice looking body
must be able to drink/smoke
has to be nice looking
the personality must be good and cool
must be girly and sweet enough to be nice to him BUT
bitchy enough not to be nice to others
must get along well with his friends
must work out
etc etc etc etc...

AND I think to myself. I AM NONE OF THOSE and that's NOT the answer I was seeking for.
The answer I wanted was "You, You're my type." Well, dumb me expecting too much from other people again. Not everyone can say the right words that I was expecting and no, I don't blame him. 

Maybe I'm really expecting too much. All I wanted was a guy who thinks he's lucky to have me. (not because I forced him or anything just because that's how much he loves me)

Whenever I was asked what kinda guys I like. I always say "he must have six packs and have tattoos." but that's not how it works.
Your heart wants what it wants NOT what your brain wants. I keep saying I want guys like Channing Tatum, or one of the one direction boys or the guy from vampire diaries but what I really look for is his sweetness, thoughtfulness and smartness. Smart and mature guys who know how to think and how to make a girl feel lucky as if she has the best bf are the sexiest guys on earth. Six packs and tattoos can't do a thing to make me feel secured and loved.
I haven't been in a lot of relationships but good enough that I know what I want in a guy.
The truth is I don't want a hot, muscular guy who only cares about how cool he looks or how many girls are falling for him. I'd rather date a fat (may be not too much) guy who would go an extra mile to make me happy, a humble guy who is happy to be with me and a sweet guy who loves me with his heart.

AND...
it's better not to expect too much from your other half.
because.. you're not perfect either. If your other half cares about you and you have the will to take care of her, then you two are perfect. If you guys interests are similar and if you can relate to each other about what you want in life, you guys are perfect for each other. You might find the "perfect" girl/boy you want, but those are just the superficial things that will keep you going only for like a month? Sincerity and love are what gonna last for a very long time. Sincerity, love and of course, making an effort to show your love to your other half whenever u have the chance.

Good luck.